Thursday, September 25, 2014
Wednesday, September 24, 2014
Tuesday, September 16, 2014
What am I scared of?
I'm honestly not afraid of too many things.
Snakes - I'm afraid of snakes.
I know there are good snakes and bad snakes.
I don't care. I'm still afraid of them.
Cops - I'm afraid of cops.
I know there are good cops and and bad cops.
I don't care. I'm still afraid of them.
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2014/09/16/1330125/-South-Carolina-sheriff-s-deputy-caught-on-video-repeatedly-tasing-man-in-handcuffs?detail=facebook
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2014/09/16/1330050/-Another-Out-Of-Control-Cop-Story-But-This-Cop-May-Have-Messed-With-The-Wrong-Kid?detail=facebook
http://photographyisnotacrime.com/2014/06/21/woman-charged-battery-trying-view-deputys-name-tag-traffic-stop/
http://www.nbclosangeles.com/news/local/Pregnant-at-the-Time-Woman-Paid-250000-After-CHP-Threw-Her-to-Ground-187564701.html
http://www.local10.com/news/woman-who-recorded-traffic-stop-spends-night-in-jail/24532912
http://www.tmz.com/2014/09/15/django-actress-daniele-watts-lapd-race-card-fame-audio/
http://freedomoutpost.com/2013/11/new-mexico-state-police-pull-woman-over-in-routine-traffic-stop-fire-shots-at-vehicle-with-five-children-inside/
Monday, September 15, 2014
Why I Think This World Should End by Prince Ea
Never have I been much of a fan for Hip Hop or Rap music.
And once again I learn I should never say never.
This.
This, I love.
Be sure and watch to the very end, and I hope you love it too.
And once again I learn I should never say never.
This.
This, I love.
Be sure and watch to the very end, and I hope you love it too.
Sunday, September 14, 2014
A Day in Meat Camp, NC
Note: a version of this was posted on 9/6/14 at Jungle Red Writers
Most of you have heard me talk about our home in the small town of Boone, NC, which is in the northwestern part of the state where North Carolina, Tennessee and Virginia meet.
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| Photo by Don Barley |
It is a beautiful part of the world.
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| Photo by Don Barley |
But we actually live north of Boone in an area named Meat Camp.
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| Photo by Kaye Barley |
Meat Camp. What a name, huh?
When we first bought our house I swore I was going to petition to have the name changed (kiddingly).
But it didn't take me long to learn to be proud as punch to be a part of an area so rich in history and tradition.
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| Greene Farm in Meat Camp,NC - Uncredited photo found on the web |
Meat Camp is situated along the Old Buffalo Trail and was established before the Revolutionary War. As the story goes, Meat Camp was the location where hunters stored their dressed animal carcasses in a cabin that served as a primitive packing house.
In 1851, the Meat Camp Baptist Church was organized and is still active today.
Meat Camp covers 30 square miles and has a rural population of approximately 2,700.
Elevation is 3,402 feet (and up).
Our little part of Meat Camp is the coolest, most wonderful neighborhood I've ever had the good fortune to live in, with a pretty nice view from our bedroom window.
This is how we enjoy our coffee in the morning.
Watching morning arrive over Elk Knob.
| Photo by Kaye Barley |
When we first bought our house, our road was gravel.
We have moved up to being a paved road now, but other than that - things haven't changed.
| Photo by Kaye Barley |
I remember when I was still working at Appalachian State University, before retirement, someone asked where we lived and when I told her, she asked if we were on Rich Mountain (elevation 4,741 ft.).
I had to think about this - these mountains were a whole new thing for me, and still confusing.
When I told her our road was at the base of Rich Mountain and explained how it went up (and up and up), she explained how yes, we did live on Rich Mountain, just not on Rich Mountain Road.
okay.
She went on to say there were stories and legends about spiritual energy in this area.
These ancient mountains work some magic - I do believe that.
What is interesting to me is that our little neighborhood is small, and we're spread out from one another over a few miles from the base to the top of our mountain road.
We are a wide, wide range of economic and educational diversity. Blue collar to PhDs and MDs.
And yet, more closely knit and supportive than any neighborhood I've lived previously.
More interesting to me is the creative vitality within this small group. We have people who do pottery, who sculpt, paint, do some blacksmithing, stained glass, collage artistry, leather working, jewelry making, photography and writing.
Our get-togethers are not only fun, but inspirational and motivating. Our most recent get together was at an Open Studio event neighbors Keith Lambert and Willie Baucom hosted last weekend.
A combination of all good things - good food, good music, good friends - and surrounded by the natural beauty of the mountains along with the beauty of Keith and Willie's art.
Their first annual Open Studio in Meat Camp.
Life is Meat Camp is very good.
Moving to this part of the world was a major life-style change.
We came from big city Atlanta to small town Boone - living in the rural Meat Camp. But, I have to say, I think I've adjusted well.
Life is good. Very, very good.
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Friday, September 12, 2014
An Evening with Tom Robbins
Author Tom Robbins was raised in Blowing Rock, NC and left when he was 10.
Many of his memories of those ten short years are included in his new book, "Tibetan Peach Pie:A True Account of an Imaginative Life." He was exactly the kind of kid you would expect Tom Robbins the author to be.
An excerpt from Tibetan Peach Pie: "Allowed to roam freely in both the streets and the woods, I observed and interacted not only with the wonders of nature but with an assortment of squirrel hunters, rabbit trappers, berry pickers, banjo pickers, moonshiners, tramps, real Gypsies, snake handlers, mule-back preachers (like my grandpa), eccentric characters with names such as Pink Baldwin and Junebug Tate, and perhaps most influential, bib-overalled raconteurs, many of whom spun stories as effortlessly and expertly as they spit tobacco juice."
Blowing Rock declared September 10, 2014 Tom Robbins Day.
On September 11, Mr. Robbins was scheduled to speak at a small venue seating 400 people at Appalachian State University in Boone, NC.
When it became clear that wasn't going to be quite large enough, the event was moved to The Schaefer Center for the Performing Arts which seats 1,684 people. It was a sold out affair.
He spoke, he read and he entertained.
He filled the room with the magic he infuses in his writing. And the audience thanked him with more than one standing ovation.
A perfect evening.
But with still more to come.
I was a lucky winner of the Take a Trip with Tom Instagram photo contest so was able to meet him. This in addition to having a front row seat at the event, and being given an autographed copy of Tibetan Peach Pie.
And what's better than being able to come home from an event such as this with a story?!
My friends Jill and Willie went with me and just makes something like this even more fun if you have good friends to share it with.
I'm still on Cloud Nine, and Tom Robbins is every bit as delightful as you would hope if you read his work.
And here's the story (you knew there would be a story, right?!) If you've read Tibetan Peach Pie, you may have noticed in the last paragraph of the preface, there's an address given where you can write to Tom Robbins and ask for something.
I did that. Back when I first got the book - the day it was released.
And I signed my card, "Kaye Barley - See you in Boone!" because I knew he was coming for the events.
When I was introduced to him last night by Lynn Patterson, one of the people responsible for putting all this together. (She and everyone else did a bang-up job. Thank You, Lynn!), she said, "Tom, this is Kaye Barley."
And he looked at me, his eyes went kinda wide and he grinned really big and said (swear to God), "You wrote to me!"
He did!
And did my mouth fall open?
It did.
Can you believe it?
The man is cooler than cool.
So, I bring home a lesson from this.
If you've been following Meanderings and Muses, you would have seen my last post about having the blues.
I guess, like Jon Stewart, I too am an "Angry Optimist."
And the reason I guess I remain an optimist - angry or otherwise - is because of nights like last night and my amazing opportunities that I seem to just fall into.
Meeting Tom Robbins was not something I ever would have imagined happening.
Finding him to be every bit as charming and funny and philosophical and delightful and kind were all things I will hold in my heart for a long, long time.
I just wish I could have actually thought of something to say rather than just "How on earth did you remember that?!" when he told me he remembered receiving a card from me. From that point on, I don't remember saying a word. I remember him chatting, and telling someone that he and I were long-time pen pals, and I remember giving him a little kiss on the cheek.
And I remembered that life is, indeed, good.
Tuesday, September 9, 2014
Feeling Blue
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| Meditation, 1921 John Collier |
Art is supposed to speak to us.
Some art speaks to some differently than to others.
Some art speaks more loudly, has more impact, for some than for others.
And sometimes it's just the circumstances for one person at one specific moment.
I saw this painting and something inside me moved.
I didn't notice the title, Meditation.
Meditation is not what I got from this.
I saw a woman draped in sadness.
Stopped in motion and unable to stir while her thoughts overtook her.
I rarely admit to having the blues.
I'm one of those people you'll see angry, lashing out at what I find abhorrent, revolting, disgusting, immoral and/or just plain wrong. When, in fact, it makes me profoundly sad. But I'd rather allow people see the me that appears strong - ready and able to take on the world.
Don't get me wrong. I feel ready and able to take on the world in a lot of cases, and if my voice is the only way for me to feel as though I'm contributing something (even if it's only to myself) to change the things that I find wrong, then I will do it as long as I'm able.
Those things - the big things - include problems that I cannot imagine people of morals not wanting to fight.
Corruption in our government. Destruction of our planet and its inhabitants by poisoning our water and our food - all for profit for a few. Racism (how can anyone now deny that this is still a problem in this country?). Hypocrisy in what some people declare as religion. Homelessness and the brink of homelessness because of pure greed and selfishness in the hands of the smallest percent of our population who handle the wealth and are quite content to see the larger percent struggle. Struggle to put food on their tables for their families. Struggle with health care. Struggle with mortgages, and mounting debt. Mounting debt not for frivolous things, but for just the daily act of living and getting by.
Closer to home in my own state I'm angered and saddened by these same problems exacerbated by a governor and cronies who have taken the State of North Carolina and turned it back 50 years in education, conservation, salaries, energy - you name it.
Even closer to home in my own town I'm angered and saddened by these same problems exacerbated by a small group of people who want to own every spare inch of ground so they can flatten another mountain and profit from it. And by golly, if it means they have to suppress voting rights, then boy howdy - let it begin (actually, it has already begun, and blatantly so).
Reading Facebook last night angered me and made me sad.
What was there?
Lying politicians. Mud being thrown at people who don't deserve it. Pictures of people carrying assault rifles into stores and restaurants (why?). Statistics about proven health issues in areas near fracking sites (which matter not a fig to those who will make big money off this desecration to our land and our environment which we should hold sacred). People shouting about how they believe in pro-life issues but are willing to turn away innocent children at our borders, or allow our own children to live in poverty, missing meals and going to bed hungry. I call bullshit on all that empty rhetoric.
Let's see, what else was at Facebook? Oh yeah. Video of a very big, very strong man punching a woman in the face and knocking her out. Out cold. Then dragging her limp body out of an elevator. Then reading that the NFL was appalled at this. Uh huh. What I believe is that they were appalled only after social media got a hold of it and it was seen by millions of outraged people. Any idea how many pro sports players who have also abused women are still playing the game without losing their "job?" No, I don't know either, but I'm betting Ray Rice wasn't a one-time thing.
Even more disturbing and disgusting was reading comments written by people who were defending Ray Rice. "She hit him first." "It was her fault." That sort of garbage. That's not even worthy of conversation. And for those who wonder why his then fiance, now wife, hasn't left him, let me just say there are deeper issues than most of us who have not lived with domestic abuse know and fully understand. There is a long process involved in the stealing of someone's dignity and self-confidence before that first punch is thrown.
And I'm sad about things even closer to home. Right here in my home.
I know I'm not alone when I say I'd rather be sick or hurt myself than see my loved ones sick or hurt.
It's been a tough time for my Donald lately. He's been suffering from back pain following a fall and undergoing treatment for that. Then up pops a toothache. Naturally, on a Friday when our dentist's office is closed (a new dentist - our tried and true dentist, who also happens to be a neighbor and good friend up and retired. Can you imagine?! The nerve!). But, former dentist was kind enough to phone in prescriptions to help Donald make it through the weekend. But wait - we're far from the end of this tale!
Saturday evening we spent several hours at the Watauga Medical Center Emergency Room for a kidney stone attack Don was suffering through.
Sunday he spent the day either in pain from his tooth, or his kidney or his back. Or asleep from pain meds.
Monday he called his dentist to get an appointment to see about his tooth only to be told they could see him in three weeks. I'm not going to go into all this here, 'cause I ranted about it enough at Facebook to exhaust myself and everyone else. Suffice to say, Mr. Dentist and I had words and we'll be moving to a different dentist.
Former, now retired, dentist got Donald an appointment with an endodontist who squeezed Donald in amongst her other appointments and did enough to help ease the pain with a partial root canal which he'll have completed on Monday.
None of these things Don is experiencing can be helped and when he hurts, I hurt. And - I would be lying by omission if I didn't say we're also feeling the pinch money wise as well.
So yes, today I am sad. I admit it.
Saturday, September 6, 2014
Reed Farrel Coleman On Being 1/3 of Robert B. Parker
On
Being 1/3 of Robert B. Parker
It was early May 2013 and the day before I was to
leave for St. Louis to do my annual Suspense Night gig at the St. Louis County
Library. It was about 3:00 in the afternoon and I was relaxing after having
packed for my trip. My agent’s phone number flashed across my TV screen. The
conversation that followed went something like this:
“Hey,
David (David Hale Smith of Inkwell Management), what’s up? Something wrong?”
“Reed,
I think you need to sit down.”
“As a
matter of fact, I’m laying down, watching TV.”
“Good.”
“Why,
David, what’s wrong?”
“Are
you sure you’re not standing?”
“David,
if you don’t tell me what’s going on, I’m gonna shoot you.”
“How
would you like to be Robert B. Parker?”
The rest,
as they say, is history. Or it soon will be. On September 9th, two
days from now, Robert B. Parker’s Blind
Spot, a Jesse Stone novel by Reed Farrel Coleman will be on book shelves
and available through your favorite e-tailer. These last sixteen months have
been quite an interesting journey. Most of it has been wonderful, but many
aspects of it have been frustrating as well. That’s pretty much how everything
in life goes, right? There always seems to be this odd balance in life and this
experience has sure borne that out.
First,
I got the call from my agent about a week after I finished The Hollow Girl, the
final novel in my Moe Prager Mystery series. What, I sometimes wonder, would
have happened had they offered me this gig before I had completed the Moe
series? When I asked my new editor at Putnam if she was aware that I was
wrapping up the Moe series, she said she had no clue. I figured that I got the
gig not only based upon my writing ability, but also on the essay I wrote for
the book In Pursuit of Spenser: Mystery
Writers on Robert B. Parker and the Creation of an American Hero, edited by
Otto Penzler. My essay? “Go East
Young Man: Robert B. Parker, Jesse Stone, and Spenser.” Yet again, I was wrong.
My editor only read the essay after I was hired.
One of
my great frustrations was that I wasn’t permitted to make this deal public for
eleven months. Yes, I could tell my family, but for the most part I operated
under the threat of losing the deal if it became public knowledge. Only I
needed to be able to tell some colleagues in order to seek their advice and to
access their expertise on Jesse Stone and Mr. Parker. At points during the
writing of Blind Spot, I felt more
like an undercover operative than an author. It really came to a head at
Bouchercon Albany when I was sitting in on a panel about the future of PI
fiction and the moderator, Ali Karim, asked me my opinion on the phenomenon of
writers taking over series made famous by now deceased authors. You can imagine
that I was biting the insides of my cheeks pretty hard when I said, “I guess it
depends on the writers involved and the series.”
For the
most part, though, it’s been great and all the little frustrations worth it. It
is a total honor to have been chosen to follow in Robert B. Parker’s footsteps
and to continue one of the great series in crime fiction history. Jesse Stone
is that rarest of commodities: a perfectly flawed protagonist. There are many
flawed protagonists. There are some perfect protagonists. But very few are
perfectly flawed. What do I mean? If you know the series, you know what I mean.
If Blind Spot is your first Jesse
Stone novel, you’ll get it right away. If you have read any of my own work, you
know I have a real weak spot for strong, yet vulnerable protagonists. But Jesse
and Moe are very different creatures. Moe wore his heart on his sleeve. The
only thing Jesse wears on his sleeve is his Paradise Police Department patch. While
I haven’t tried to do a direct imitation of Mr. Parker’s style, I have tried to
be true to his characters. I think of it this way: I use the same camera as Mr.
Parker did, but I've changed lenses.
I do
wonder how the book will be received by critics and longtime fans of the
series. I guess I’ll find out soon enough.
Thursday, September 4, 2014
Louise Penny
I have just heard some wonderful news!
I'm a person who loves hearing wonderful news.
Especially when it concerns someone I know.
Especially when it concerns someone who deserves every accolade, every award, every single nice thing said about her and her work.
Louise Penny's THE LONG WAY HOME will debut at #1 on the New York Times bestseller list the week of Sept 14th. (you can read my review here - http://www.meanderingsandmuses.com/2014/08/louise-pennys-long-way-home.html)
She has just ended her tour with an event in Vancouver with over 700 people in attendance.
Seven.
Hundred.
People.
How amazing is that?!
I have followed Louise's work and i have followed her star right to the top. I have cheered her every step of the way and I'm as proud as if I were the woman's mother, for Lord's sake!
I met Louise in Baltimore. It was the first Bouchercon I attended. I could not wait to tell her how much I loved her books.
She was beautiful, sweet, kind, funny, gracious and so approachable.
I next saw her in Indianapolis. Bouchercon, again.
Then I got to see her again at Malice a couple years ago. I love this picture. Oh, how I love both these women.
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