Sunday, March 22, 2026

"Our children are watching." 😪



 Written by Michael Garrett, NC Senate


The President of the United States learned that Robert Mueller had died.


And he picked up his phone and typed:


“Good. I’m glad he’s dead.”


I need you to stop.


Put down whatever you’re doing and feel the full weight of those words.


Good. I’m glad he’s dead.


Said by the man who holds the most powerful office in the history of human civilization. The office of Washington. Of Lincoln. Of Roosevelt standing in the rubble of Pearl Harbor promising a nation trembling in the dark that we would rise.


That office.


Those words.


Now let me tell you who Robert Mueller was.


He did not have to go to Vietnam.


He had every reason not to. A Princeton degree. A blown-out knee. A future waiting for him in the comfort of civilian life.


He waited a full year for that knee to heal, just so he could serve.


Let that sink in.


He walked into hell when other men were running from it. He came home with a Bronze Star for heroism and a Purple Heart soaked in the blood of his sacrifice. He spent the next four decades standing in the breach, as a prosecutor, as FBI Director, as the man who held this nation together in the smoldering ash of September 12th, 2001, when we were all afraid and we needed someone steady, someone serious, someone who loved this country more than he loved himself.


He was all of those things.


He was a Republican.


He was, by every honest measure, an American hero.


And the President danced on his grave.


I think about my kids.


I think about the car rides where Jack or Charlotte asks me out of nowhere, the way kids do, when the radio’s low and you think they’re not paying attention, “Dad, what does the President do?”


And I’d tell them. Proudly. That the President is someone who carries the weight of all of us. That the job calls out the very best in a person. That it’s the highest honor this country can give.


I believed that when I said it.


I will not have that conversation today.


Not because I don’t have the words. Because I will not let my children believe for a single second that what they saw this morning is acceptable. That cruelty is strength. That power means you never have to be decent. That you can dance on a hero’s grave and call it justice.


I will not raise children who think that is normal.


I will not raise children who think that is America.


And I know I am not alone.


Because we have been here before.


Men waded through freezing water at Valley Forge for a country that hadn’t fully been born yet. They bled on the beaches of Normandy for children they would never meet. They crossed the Edmund Pettus Bridge into swinging batons because they believed, despite every reason not to, that America’s promise was worth the pain.


They did not do that for us to surrender it in silence.


The rot is deep. Scrubbing this stain from the soul of our nation will not happen in a single election, a single speech, a single post on a Saturday afternoon. It will take years. It will demand more from us than comfort allows.


But we do not get to use that as an excuse to look away.


So, it falls to each of us, Democrat, Republican, Independent, who has ever looked at their child and felt the terrifying beauty of knowing you are responsible for shaping who they become.


Stand up.


Not for a party. Not for a politician. For the country you are trying to hand to children who had no say in the world we’re making for them.


Robert Mueller walked into fire, again and again, because he believed America was worth it.


The least we can do, the absolute least, is honor that sacrifice by refusing to let cruelty become normal. By refusing to let the gutter become the standard. By refusing to sit down, scroll past, and let history record that we saw this moment clearly, and did nothing.


Our children are watching.


Generations not yet born are counting on decisions we make right now, in this hour, in this darkness.


We do not get to look away.


Rise. Fight. Restore.


Push.




Thursday, March 19, 2026

My day


 This time next week, I will be in Paris with Pal Vickie.


As I mentioned, husbands and dogs will be staying home holding down our respective forts.




It's not that they don't enjoy traveling - they do.  

But right now, a girl's trip to Paris just feels right.

And there are some big, husbands included, trips booked already for the upcoming months.  

Honestly, having a trip planned, doing the planning, etc., is what I kinda live for these days.

And.  Well.  I love Paris.

Raoul Dufy



As you can imagine, Vickie and I have been in daily communication about "all the things."

One of the most often talked about "things" is what we're packing.  We both love clothes.  Buying them, wearing them, sharing pictures of them.

Packing them can be a challenge.

But we have it handled.


My very favorite suitcase is my Away Bigger Carry-On.  I have never had any trouble carrying it on with Delta even though it is a little larger than their carry-on policy states.

I'm just not feeling warm and fuzzy about that size thing this trip.  


So.


I'm going to be taking my ugly Amazon Basic suitcase which fits the carry-on criteria.  It's actually the perfect suitcase in every aspect except that color.  Ugh.  Purple?  Mauve?  Whatever.  Ugh.  (and the picture actually flatters it!). When I ordered it from Amazon several years back they called it red.  HA!  No Way is that a red suitcase!  

And I'm using a little wheeled suitcase as my personal item which will fit under the seat.

You would not even believe all the thought and discussion that has led me to this FINAL luggage decision.  Final.  Yes.  They're both packed, so there's no going back.  My last minute items will get squeezed in right before leaving for the airport.





I'm excited.

Ready to go.

I get homesick for Paris.

And it's past time.


This morning, one of the first things I read as I was having my coffee, was Heather Cox Richardson's daily letter.     If you haven't read this, please do.  And send it to anyone you know who might still be a trump supporter.  Usually, I can count on the fact that Heather's insights are going to make me angry.  Angry enough to make calls and write letters and that's a good thing.  This latest, however, has just made me sick.  Physically sick and somewhat defeated.  I'm left with sadness and emptiness concerning our country.


THIS - all of THIS - is why I need trips lined up.  To keep me sane.  To have good things to look forward to.  The need to feel that the future is not completely bleak.



And, as you know, I am addicted to making bracelets.  Boy, today I was a bracelet making fool.









When not making bracelets, or planning our next trip, or calling/writing our representatives, I daydream. 

I spend a lot of time daydreaming here at Vacation Perfect.  <sigh>



A Paris Penthouse to Call Your Own

1 bedroom | 1.5 bathrooms | 7th arrondissement | €1,775,000







“Reality is wrong. Dreams are for real.”—Tupac Shakur.




Raoul Dufy


Hold onto those dreams, y'all!

They're important.


❤ ❤ ❤ 




Monday, March 16, 2026

A plan . . .
















Donald asked me what it is that I intend to do with this growing pile of word bracelets.

Give them away, I guess.

Right now it's just fun to sit down and make them.

Think of a word, or a phrase, choose some fun colors and . . . make a bracelet.  

That is as far as the planning went.



And he came up with a very fun idea.

Since Vickie and I will be in Paris on NO KINGS DAY and because Parisians will, of course, be having their own protest, Don suggested I take my bracelets and toss them out to people during the protest.  Sort of a Mardi Gras kinda thing.  I love it!  

There may be some puzzled faces for those who end up with bracelets saying things like "Make More Biscuits," "Hug More Necks," and that sort of thing.

Cultural exchanges are good, don't you think?  😊







Thursday, March 12, 2026

Today - thoughts and things to do

Sometimes I come here to muse and meander.  Otherwise known as "just rambling on."


Today is a day of "just rambling on."


For example -


No. 1.  "Man, i really really need a hair cut."

No. 2.  "Climate Change is a Hoax"  -  (What Idiots Believe)


Not that Science gives a shit what anyone thinks.  Science is gonna just go on being Science, while idiots go on being idiots.



So.

Those were just things I was thinking about this morning.


Because, like many of you, I think (and fret!) about things a lot.  

We, the thinkers, are also the worriers.  


That means we worry that so many still honestly believe that climate change is a hoax.  Including the ignorant clowns in our present administration.  


I wish I could share this really simple guide to climate change with the nonbelievers, BUT, they are stuck in a belief SO deeply that they are just not interested in learning what Science has to teach.  


Anyhooooooo - 

Yesterday we had a 73 degree day.

Today we're having snow, sleet, and white out conditions.








I am not complaining.  I am much more a winter girl than a summer girl. 

I always count on a picture of one of the prettiest corners of our neighborhood from our friends at Plan B





We love our little Plan B Corner Store





Earlier this morning, before the weather (and the roads!) got bad, Don Barley took off and drove to town while I started thinking about packing for my upcoming trip with gal pal Vickie.



















He picked up some Euros I had ordered through our credit union.   The young woman, Grace, who placed my order called and this was our conversation.


Ring, Ring.

Me:  "Hello."

Grace:  "Mrs. Barley, hi!  It's Grace from the credit union.  Mr. Barley is here to pick up your euros and I just need to make sure, since you were the person who ordered them, that it's okay."

Me:  "ha.  Oh, yes.  I know he appears to be an unreliable sort, but he's truly trustworthy.  It's fine, but I appreciate you checking."

Grace:  "<giggling>  Okay.  Thank you so much.  Have a good day."







And the ever-so trustworthy Mr. Barley brought home my euros and breakfast from Bojangles. 

 God love him.




Annabelle and I were happy he got back home safely because the roads got bad quickly, with accidents being widely reported.


Now that we're all where we should be, safe and snug, and after we shared a chuckle about my conversation with Grace,  I can concentrate on gathering a few things to pack.


I am concentrating on minimalism.


A few basic little black dresses, changing the looks with scarves and a kimono or two so as not to look like i only own two or three little black dresses, when in reality I own more little black dresses than should be legal.

Hmmmm . . . and maybe a little red dress or two . . .










Anyhooo -


While I'm doing all this thinking about all the things (climate change, evil people in D.C., packing suitcases, getting a hair cut (leave it long, or go shorter, or go real short .  .  .) I think I'll pour a fresh cup of coffee and go make a few bracelets.  























Have a good day!


😘











Sunday, March 8, 2026

Saved By A Bead


 There's just no way for me to write a rant that would adequately express the disgust and anger and hurt and humiliation I, along with most of the world it seems, feel towards this current administration.  


So I make bracelets.


Read or hear a new lie?

Make a bracelet.


Read or hear the latest disgrace?

Make a bracelet.


Beads, in all honesty, may be saving my sanity.



























Friday, March 6, 2026

Peaceful Beading to Resistance Beading


 And, in the blink of an eye, my bracelets went from sweet to salty.









Welcome to my studio aka our sunroom




I think I now have a new hobby.  


This may be what I'll be doing during those 3 a.m. wake-ups when I can't get back to sleep.

Making pretty little Fuck Trump bracelets.


tee hee


Whatever works - Right?!