Friday, January 23, 2026

Home. Snow. ❤ Photos and Poetry (EDITED)

Edited - twice.

Our little area of the world was not as badly hit as predicted, and not as badly impacted as others.  

Roads are bad, as expected.  Lots of businesses closed.


Surprisingly however, we did not lose power.

That said, because we're warm, have food and water, and we don't have to leave the house, I don't have one single thing to complain about.  As unpopular as this will sound to some people, I am enjoying looking out our windows at the beauty of these snow covered mountains.

So.  Back to my coffee, my book, my doll and my pins.

Stay safe, everyone!



I love this picture.  It's Elk Knob as seen from our bedroom window taken many years ago.  Since then, the trees between our house and this view have grown, hiding the magic of witnessing the sun rising over this snow capped peak.
I miss it. 








These two photos were taken by a neighbor and are from our neighborhood.








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So.

We have snow, ice, sleet and all that winter storm stuff in the forecast.

Chances of us losing our power are "very high" to "pretty darn sure."



I've collected a few snow pics we've taken from previous years, along with with snow poetry.

Enjoy!




SNOW AND SNOW

by Ted Hughes 

Snow is sometimes a she, a soft one.
Her kiss on your cheek, her finger on your sleeve
In early December, on a warm evening,
And you turn to meet her, saying "It''s snowing!"
But it is not. And nobody''s there.
Empty and calm is the air.

Sometimes the snow is a he, a sly one.
Weakly he signs the dry stone with a damp spot.
Waifish he floats and touches the pond and is not.
Treacherous-beggarly he falters, and taps at the window.
A little longer he clings to the grass-blade tip
Getting his grip.

Then how she leans, how furry foxwrap she nestles
The sky with her warm, and the earth with her softness.
How her lit crowding fairylands sink through the space-silence
To build her palace, till it twinkles in starlight—
Too frail for a foot
Or a crumb of soot.

Then how his muffled armies move in all night
And we wake and every road is blockaded
Every hill taken and every farm occupied
And the white glare of his tents is on the ceiling.
And all that dull blue day and on into the gloaming
We have to watch more coming.

Then everything in the rubbish-heaped world
Is a bridesmaid at her miracle.
Dunghills and crumbly dark old barns are bowed in the chapel of her sparkle.
The gruesome boggy cellars of the wood
Are a wedding of lace
Now taking place.










First Snow by Mary Oliver

The snow
began here
this morning and all day
continued, its white
rhetoric everywhere
calling us back to why, how,
whence such beauty and what
the meaning; such
an oracular fever! flowing
past windows, an energy it seemed
would never ebb, never settle
less than lovely! and only now,
deep into night,
it has finally ended.
The silence
is immense,
and the heavens still hold
a million candles, nowhere
the familiar things:
stars, the moon,
the darkness we expect
and nightly turn from. Trees
glitter like castles
of ribbons, the broad fields
smolder with light, a passing
creekbed lies
heaped with shining hills;
and though the questions
that have assailed us all day
remain — not a single
answer has been found –
walking out now
into the silence and the light
under the trees,
and through the fields,
feels like one.








“My Old Aunts Played Canasta in a Snowstorm” by Marjorie Saiser 

I ride along in the backseat; the aunt who can drive

picks up each sister at her door, keeps the Pontiac

chugging in each driveway while one or the other

slips into her overshoes and steps out,

closing her door with a click, the wind


lifting the fringe of her white cotton scarf

as she comes down the sidewalk, still pulling on her

new polyester Christmas-stocking mittens.

We have no business to be out in such a storm,

she says, no business at all.


The wind takes her voice and swirls it

like snow across the windshield.

We’re on to the next house, the next aunt,

the heater blowing to beat the band.


At the last house, we play canasta,

the deuces wild even as they were in childhood,

the wind blowing through the empty apple trees,

through the shadows of bumper crops. The cards


line up under my aunts’ finger bones; eights and nines and aces

straggle and fall into place like well-behaved children.

My aunts shuffle and meld; they laugh like banshees,

as they did in that other kitchen in the 30’s that

day Margaret draped a dishtowel over her face

to answer the door. We put her up to it, they say,

laughing; we pushed her. The man—whoever he was—

drove off in a huff while they laughed ’til they hiccupped,


laughing still—I’m one of the girls laughing him down the sidewalk

and into his car, we’re rascals sure as farmyard dogs,

we’re wild card-players; the snow thickens,

the coffee boils and perks, the wind is a red trey

because, as one or the other says,


We are getting up there in the years; we’ll

have to quit sometime. But today,

today,

deal, sister, deal.








Snowy Night by Mary Oliver

Last night, an owl
in the blue dark
tossed an indeterminate number
of carefully shaped sounds into
the world, in which,
a quarter of a mile away, I happened
to be standing.
I couldn’t tell
which one it was –
the barred or the great-horned
ship of the air –
it was that distant. But, anyway,
aren’t there moments
that are better than knowing something,
and sweeter? Snow was falling,
so much like stars
filling the dark trees
that one could easily imagine
its reason for being was nothing more
than prettiness. I suppose
if this were someone else’s story
they would have insisted on knowing
whatever is knowable – would have hurried
over the fields
to name it – the owl, I mean.
But it’s mine, this poem of the night,
and I just stood there, listening and holding out
my hands to the soft glitter
falling through the air. I love this world,
but not for its answers.
And I wish good luck to the owl,
whatever its name –
and I wish great welcome to the snow,
whatever its severe and comfortless







“Winter Grace” by Patricia Fargnoli 
If you have seen the snow
under the lamppost
piled up like a white beaver hat on the picnic table
or somewhere slowly falling
into the brook
to be swallowed by water,
then you have seen beauty
and know it for its transience.
And if you have gone out in the snow
for only the pleasure
of walking barely protected
from the galaxies,
the flakes settling on your parka
like the dust from just-born stars,
the cold waking you
as if from long sleeping,
then you can understand
how, more often than not,
truth is found in silence,
how the natural world comes to you
if you go out to meet it,
its icy ditches filled with dead weeds,
its vacant birdhouses, and dens
full of the sleeping.
But this is the slowed down season
held fast by darkness
and if no one comes to keep you company
then keep watch over your own solitude.
In that stillness, you will learn
with your whole body
the significance of cold
and the night,
which is otherwise always eluding you.











SNOW DAY 

by Billie Collins


Today we woke up to a revolution of snow,

its white flag waving over everything,
the landscape vanished,
not a single mouse to punctuate the blankness,
and beyond these windows

the government buildings smothered,
schools and libraries buried, the post office lost
under the noiseless drift,
the paths of trains softly blocked,
the world fallen under this falling.

In a while I will put on some boots
and step out like someone walking in water,
and the dog will porpoise through the drifts,
and I will shake a laden branch,
sending a cold shower down on us both.

But for now I am a willing prisoner in this house,
a sympathizer with the anarchic cause of snow.
I will make a pot of tea
and listen to the plastic radio on the counter,
as glad as anyone to hear the news

that the Kiddie Corner School is closed,
the Ding-Dong School, closed,
the All Aboard Children's School, closed,
the Hi-Ho Nursery School, closed,
along with - some will be delighted to hear -

the Toadstool School, the Little School,
Little Sparrows Nursery School,
Little Stars Pre-School, Peas-and-Carrots Day School,
the Tom Thumb Child Center, all closed,
and - clap your hands - the Peanuts Play School.

So this is where the children hide all day,
These are the nests where they letter and draw,
where they put on their bright miniature jackets,
all darting and climbing and sliding,
all but the few girls whispering by the fence.

And now I am listening hard
in the grandiose silence of the snow,
trying to hear what those three girls are plotting,
what riot is afoot,
which small queen is about to be brought down.




Harley was such a good boy ❤
And loved the snow













Loving the snow must be a Corgi thing.
Annabelle loves it too


And chewing on sticks
Annabelle has a real thing for sticks
Always has
































The Silence of the Snow by Ruth D. Velenski

The night sky is a dull grey white.
An opaque dust sheet floats so light
Upon the roofs and lamps and cars.
It settles so softly like falling stars.

It sneaks in crevices and onto window sills.
Piles up in soft layers over roads and hills,
Weighs down branches, envelopes bark,
Skips and flutters across the depth of dark.

With dawn a scene of raw meringue.
From bough and bridge and roof does hang.
Through night's deep slumber - a silent world
Descended - a ghostly shroud unfurled.

In slow motion, life begins to show.
The traffic crawls in a funereal row.
Children squeal in soundless delight.
Pedestrians slide in voiceless fright.

A world transformed into monochrome,
An aerosol sky spraying its white foam,
Floating in breathless, boundless speed,
Submerging all with voracious greed.








Source: Peter Pauper















And - don't forget!
If you lose power, you can play with your dolls!






Stay as warm as you can, my friends

And

As safe as you can!

❤ 💗 💖 ❤











Thursday, January 22, 2026

When words and art resonate


***

‘Art defies defeat by its very existence, 

representing the celebration of life, in spite of 

all attempts to degrade and destroy it.”

            - - - Nadine Gordimer

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Celebration of life  by Merlin Flower 






























Monday, January 19, 2026

The Room of Ancient Keys

 

Today.  

Today is a day for poetry.

And coffee.







Grandma once gave me a tip:

During difficult times,
you move forward in small steps.
Do what you have to do, but little by little.
Don’t think about the future,
not even what might happen tomorrow.
Wash the dishes.
Take off the dust.
Write a letter.
Make some soup.
Do you see?
You are moving forward step by step.
Take a step and stop.
Get some rest.
Compliment yourself.
Take another step.
Then another one.
You won’t notice, but your steps will grow
bigger and bigger.
And time will come
when you can think about the future
without crying.
Good morning.

              - - -  Elena Mikhalkova








Friday, January 16, 2026

”My Soul is in a Hurry” by Mario de Andrade

 I counted my years

and realized that I have

Less time to live by,

Than I have lived so far.


I feel like a child who won a pack of candies: at first, he ate them with pleasure

But when he realized that there was little left, he began to taste them intensely.


I have no time for endless meetings

where the statutes, rules, procedures & internal regulations are discussed,

knowing that nothing will be done.


I no longer have the patience

To stand absurd people who,

despite their chronological age,

have not grown up.


My time is too short:

I want the essence,

my spirit is in a hurry.

I do not have much candy

In the package anymore.


I want to live next to humans,

very realistic people who know

How to laugh at their mistakes,

Who are not inflated by their own triumphs

and who take responsibility for their actions.

In this way, human dignity is defended

and we live in truth and honesty.


It is the essentials that make life useful.

I want to surround myself with people

who know how to touch the hearts of those whom hard strokes of life

have taught to grow with sweet touches of the soul.


Yes, I'm in a hurry.

I'm in a hurry to live with the intensity that only maturity can bring.

I do not intend to waste any of the remaining desserts.

I am sure they will be exquisite,

much more than those eaten so far.

My goal is to reach the end satisfied

and at peace with my loved ones and my conscience.


We have two lives

and the second begins when you realize you only have one.







Wednesday, January 14, 2026

GET MAD, DAMN IT!

"Never doubt that small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has."

                   Margaret Mead



Breathe.  Look for beauty.  Do good things for yourself. 


 But also - GET MAD. 


 Wring your hands, if you must, but DO SOMETHING!!!!!


I'm mad.  Mad as hell.  HOW CAN YOU NOT BE MAD?!


I call and write my representatives almost every day. WE ALL SHOULD. 


  It does not matter whether they are Republicans or Democrats.


  It is no longer about politics. 


 It's whether you care enough about this country to fight for it and for democracy. 


 It doesn't help if you say you already know how your members of congress feel, or how they'll vote. 


 They NEED to know how their constituents feel. 


CALL 

202-224-3121

TODAY


Do you care enough to take FIVE MINUTES out of your day?!

FIVE MINUTES.


Do SOMETHING!!!!!!!!!!!


"I swore never to be silent whenever and wherever human beings endure suffering and humiliation. We must always take sides. 

Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. 

Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented."

               - - -  Elie Wiesel






Tuesday, January 13, 2026

Remember what you must do - RECOMMENDED READING


Some days, only poetry will do.


Today, for me, it's Nikita Gill 


* * *


Remember what you must do

When they undervalue you,

when they think
your softness is your weakness,
when they treat your kindness
like it is their advantage.

You awaken
every dragon,
every wolf,
every monster
that sleeps inside of you
and you remind them
what hell looks like
when it wears the skin
of a gentle human.










Friday, January 9, 2026

Speaking up

 




When I wake up in the morning I roll over to my left and look up.

That coffee mug is usually what I see.



Here's why.


40+ years ago it became a daily thing for Donald and I to bring one another morning coffee in bed.

Whichever of us happened to get up first would make coffee and bring two cups to bed.

It's how we started our day.  


Things have changed over the years.  Now that we're retired, I am often still reading when Donald falls asleep, so he's usually the first one up.  


Sometimes the first one up by several hours.


He'll fix me a cup of coffee and leave it on my nightstand.


Yes, sometimes it's stone cold by the time I wake up and he's gone on about his business, and that's okay.


It still makes me smile.


And I know I am loved.


And that knowledge has never been more important than it is right now.


When I was younger I was fairly fearless.  Granted, some of that fearlessness came from the naivety of being young and untested.  Witnessing and confronting mortality had not yet happened.

But it's more than that.

For one thing, I have, on occasion, been stopped by police for driving too fast.


It was annoying, frustrating, certainly not fun, but, sadly unlike our friends and family of color, I was never scared to pull over while those lights flashed and the siren whoop-whooped.


Not true today.  I think I would try to keep driving long enough to find a well populated spot before pulling over.  But now we know, even having a crowd of people around is not enough to keep us from being shot and killed.


I could write volumes about this, but I just don't have it in me right now. 


This morning while having my quiet cup of coffee, I did what I often do.


I wrote to my members of congress.  Tillis, Budd, and Foxx.

Today I was on a tear and included many many many things I'm upset, angry, and scared about.


ICE, Greenland, Venezuela, Health Care.  Our missing congress.


Being a Third World Country. 


I may not be as fearless as I once was, but I am, by damned, determined not to be cowed by our own elected officials.  


They're supposed to follow the will of the people.  NOT the will of an insane tin pot bully of a dictator.


As long as I breathe I will remind them of this.


I hope you will too.
































Thursday, January 8, 2026

Questions

 

1.  A question for my women friends.


Suppose you are sitting in your car and you are approached by men wearing uniforms.  Carrying guns.  With masks covering their faces.

When they demand you get out of the car, what do you do?



2.  Question for my men friends.


Suppose your wife/daughter/mother/sister/friend is sitting in her car and she is  approached by men wearing uniforms.  Carrying guns.  With masks covering their faces.

When they demand she get out of the car, what would you have her do?



3.  Another question for my men friends.


Suppose you are sitting in your car and you are approached by men wearing uniforms.  Carrying guns.  With masks covering their faces.

When they demand you get out of the car, what do you do?




4.  Another question for my men friends.


Suppose your husband/son/father/brother/friend is sitting in his car and he is approached by men wearing uniforms.  Carrying guns.  With masks covering their faces.

When they demand he get out of the car, what would you have him do?





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Explore this gift article from The New York Times. You can read it for free without a subscription. 

Live Updates: Minnesota Officials Dispute Federal Account of Fatal ICE Shooting 

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Wednesday, January 7, 2026

Aloka and the Buddhist Monks on their Walk for Peace



I continue following Aloka and the Buddhist Monks on their Walk for Peace.  I hope Don Barley and Annabelle and I can drive to a location nearby in the next few days to just stand on the side of the road to witness their journey.  

I'm so very sick of all the hateful things this country has come to represent. 😪 Buddhist Monks and Aloka The Peace Dog may help me stop crying.


Are the peace walk monks stopping in North Carolina?

Yes, the Walk for Peace will lead the monks through North Carolina. The following destinations and approximate windows of arrival are listed on the map:

  • First Baptist Church-West, 1801 Oaklawn Ave., Charlotte - Estimated arrival between Jan. 10-20
  • 265 Willow Creek Drive, Salisbury - Jan. 10-20
  • 2021 Bishop Road, Greensboro - Jan. 20-30
  • 331 Silk Hope Road, Siler City - Jan. 20-30
  • Paul Derr Track Facility, 2495 Cates Ave., Raleigh - Jan. 20-30
  • 3591 NC-58, Centerville - Jan. 20-30


https://www.wxii12.com/article/monks-walk-for-peace-route-tracking-map-north-carolina/69935886


Map of The Peace Walk :

https://www.google.com/maps/d/viewer?mid=1f7eSxLc3YUERnnfeAK3NMg2hBI4zKDY&fbclid=IwY2xjawPLiwdleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAwzNTA2ODU1MzE3MjgAAR6qGMp1LLgX944uUnWE6k3d5Zc-opJyrSkXvo0tJFTlUDs37mBP8ITTEcV8ug_aem_gyG-NhkLhoUJ1vNrpJswCg&ll=36.238339026498075%2C-81.4958817619127&z=6&sfnsn=mo

Tuesday, January 6, 2026

Books, My 2025 Favorites, and More Meandering


I read 123 books in 2025.

This was down from 138 books read in 2024.


It's still a lot of books; i know that.


But.


My ability to concentrate was hampered by the state of things that interfered with my reading.  


It interfered with a lot of things.  

My state of general well-being resides at the top of the list.


Things aren't looking any better for this year.  


I seem to walk around in a state of unrest, angry, frightened, tearful, sad.


Exhausted.


And the constant never-ending drama of dispicableness of Washington DC and Maralago continues.


Today, the 6th of January, and I have yet to finish reading a single book.  I did start a book on Jan 1 which sounded good, but I kept thinking about a different book that seemed to be calling me.


So, I put down the first book, (which I hope to go back to), and picked up the second.


But then got distracted by things like football, and putting away a few Christmas sit-abouts, and that already mentioned constant never-ending drama of dispicableness of Washington DC and Maralago.


I've been writing and calling our non-existent congress almost every day, someimes more than once, and there you have it - a big ol' timesuck of my reading time.


Here's an example of me talking to me.  Every single day: "What to tackle today in emails and/or calls to congress?  Hmmm . . .  Health care, grocery prices, illegal destruction of the White House, those Epstein Files, Jack Smith, ICE, the ineptness if this administration, the, imo, corruptness of this administration, Venezuela, calls for impeachment, or or or WHAT?!?!!  There's just SO much!!!!"


But.  In the list of hopeful things is The Buddhist Monks (and Aloka) Walk for Peace which you can read about all over the internet.  Here's a good article published yesterday.


I have found comfort and solace following their walk. 


But anyhoooooo . . . after all the meandering . . .


Here's that list of favorite books I read last year.


We Are All Guilty Here (North Falls #1) by Karin Slaughter (William Morrow, 2025).
Writers and Liars by Carol Goodman (William Morrow Paperbacks, 2025).
Apostle’s Cove (A Cork O'Connor Mystery) by William Kent Krueger (Atria Books, 2025).
My Beloved (A Mitford Novel) by Jan Karon (G.P. Putnam's Sons, 2025).
All This Could Be Yours by Hank Phillippi Ryan (Minotaur Books, 2025).
Hunter’s Heart Ridge (A Franklin Warren and Alice Bellows Mystery) by Sarah Stewart Taylor (Minotaur Books, 2025).
Mrs. Endicott’s Splendid Adventure by Rhys Bowen (Lake Union Publishing, 2025).
These Heathens by Mia McKenzie (Random House, 2025).
Through An Open Window by Pamela Terry (Ballantine Books, 2025).
That Last Carolina Summer by Karen White (Park Row, 2025).
The Correspondent by Virginia Evans (Crown, 2025).
The Look by Michelle Obama (Crown, 2025).
Where the Rivers Merge by Mary Alice Monroe (William Morrow, 2025)















Sunday, January 4, 2026

Mary Oliver - Poet/Prophet

 Of The Empire


We will be known as a culture that feared death

and adored power, that tried to vanquish insecurity

for the few and cared little for the penury of the

many. We will be known as a culture that taught

and rewarded the amassing of things, that spoke

little if at all about the quality of life for

people (other people), for dogs, for rivers. All

the world, in our eyes, they will say, was a

commodity. And they will say that this structure

was held together politically, which it was, and

they will say also that our politics was no more

than an apparatus to accommodate the feelings of

the heart, and that the heart, in those days,

was small, and hard, and full of meanness.


© 2008 by Mary Oliver

From her 2008 collection, Red Bird

Published by Beacon Press 2008




Saturday, January 3, 2026

Today

 

Today is another day that I opened my eyes to yet another horror.

Those who voted for the unhinged man in our White House opened Pandora's Box and unleashed evil into the world.

They have to live with that and the consequences.

Sadly.  So do we.


So.


I will search out things to help ease the pain I feel in my heart.  The pain is real.  It is not forgiving.


If you're having similar feelings, join me in following Aloka and the Buddhist Monks on their Walk for Peace.  It will, I hope, help ease your heart.  ❤


https://www.facebook.com/share/1H5e4wVrXf/

https://www.facebook.com/share/1ANeLnuzuc/




We may not have a working congress, but for a short while we will be graced with these peace loving monks and a dog named Aloka (my vote for the next Nobel Peace Prize).



































Thursday, January 1, 2026

In Memoriam, [Ring out, wild bells]


Ring out, wild bells, to the wild sky,
   The flying cloud, the frosty light:
   The year is dying in the night;
Ring out, wild bells, and let him die.

Ring out the old, ring in the new,
   Ring, happy bells, across the snow:
   The year is going, let him go;
Ring out the false, ring in the true.

Ring out the grief that saps the mind
   For those that here we see no more;
   Ring out the feud of rich and poor,
Ring in redress to all mankind.

Ring out a slowly dying cause,
   And ancient forms of party strife;
   Ring in the nobler modes of life,
With sweeter manners, purer laws.

Ring out the want, the care, the sin,
   The faithless coldness of the times;
   Ring out, ring out my mournful rhymes
But ring the fuller minstrel in.

Ring out false pride in place and blood,
   The civic slander and the spite;
   Ring in the love of truth and right,
Ring in the common love of good.

Ring out old shapes of foul disease;
   Ring out the narrowing lust of gold;
   Ring out the thousand wars of old,
Ring in the thousand years of peace.

Ring in the valiant man and free,
   The larger heart, the kindlier hand;
   Ring out the darkness of the land,
Ring in the Christ that is to be.

               - - -  Alfred Lord Tennyson